Ive been dating my bf for 4 years now, and I recently (to my horror) got an herpes outbreak. I've only slept with 2 guys in my whole life, and so there are only two possibilities. 1) my ex gave it to me 5 years ago, but i just never have a break out until now or 2) my current bf gave it to me but I just now had an outbreak. We are in a commited relationship, although we did break up 1.5 years ago and dated other ppl briefly. My bf has never had an outbreak, and as far as I know, my ex hasnt either.
My question is, what is the possiblity that my current BF gave it to me? And, if he didn't give it to me and my Ex did, I've been with my bf for 4 years now.. so if my ex gave it to me, my BF would most likely have it by now rite?

It is important to me to figure this out because if he doesnt have herpes, then i want to take extra precaution not to give it to him. and if he already does.. then we wont have to be so paranoid

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